Regash wrote:
The phrase "I hope you see my point." is meant in a way that I say that I really hope you don't get me wrong, that you understand what I am trying to say.
That's my point - it is an extremely effective and simple way of getting people on your side. You reach out a hand to them showing that you are interested in a shared undertanding, rather than just trying to drill your point home. It works well because you are demonstrating co-operation. Many people who have English as their first language are not as good at doing that as you are.
Regash wrote:To use Itchens metaphor: Why would anyone start complaining about the ships quality BEFORE they even know it's got no crew and is full of holes?
Because you can't design a boat after it has been built.
sann0638 wrote:Think you could do better? You'd be very welcome to try.
Do you think that your response to me has created an environment of co-operation? How do you think I feel about you when I read your message? Have you brought me on your side, or have you driven a wedge between us?
People who volunteer their free time to the NAF should be applauded and respected for their efforts. The community would be much worse without the dedication of those people. I absolutely include you within that. You spend your time on these forums, on fumbbl, on youtube, other social media, and the wider community promoting the game. I believe that we need more good players coming into the scene to continue existing, and you play your part in ensuring that.
But does that mean that you get everything right? Does that mean that others are obliged to listen to what you have to say? Does that give you any ownership? These are not things that are automatic. The hardest thing is to be honest with yourself. When I see people say they tried and then blame the other side I think about the other half of the story. As a community we believe that the NAF has an authority, and our primary method of persuasion seems to be using that authority. But cyanide do not recognise that authority, so instead we blame them for not recognising it.
Then we see someone like plasmoid who's ideas have made it into the game. Do we see this as an opportunity to build bridges? Do we promote plasmoid as an example of what the community has to offer and say there are more good people that can help out? No, we blast the bretonnians as a terrible team and start a 20 page thread dissecting the merit of CRP+ (including the name).
Do we see what favours we can do for them to see if they reciprocate? Maybe we did tell them we would promote their game for free at tournaments. Maybe we did ask them to send some devs to the NAF championship to do a Q&A on the Satuday evening. Maybe we asked if we could pre-purchase some copies of the game in order to run a competition.
And even when they tell us no do we promote them and the community that they are building or do we get upset and say they have crashed into an iceberg?
When I went on the steam community page yesterday it said there were 4,138 people currently in game. There will be more on the consoles. The first 2 people I played on Blood Bowl 2 were Russian. The reddit blood bowl page is full of new players looking for help. I played a really nice guy today that had a good grasp of things but was clearly new and making a lot of rookie errors. No rerolls, Rat Ogre, didn't use all his inducement money, and was a little too fond of 1 dice blocks at the start. I showed him to fumbbl and here, we discussed team selection, I showed him how to make a simple cage, and things started to twig. If we want him, and the thousands of other new players that Cyanide have brought into our community, to stick around, then there has never been a more important time for us to help them so they stay interested. You have never had a bigger and better opportunity sann to promote blood bowl, promote the NAF, promote Cyanide, and create a much larger and more lively community.
So you have a choice. You've missed the boat, and you are on the shore. Are you going to tell everyone the boat is heading for an iceberg, or are you going to find another boat and get as many people to set off after the first one as you can?
If we work together, we can make a difference.